Cross-Border Divorce and Custody Disputes Resolved Through Expert Mediation
In a globalised world, family relationships frequently cross borders — and so do family law disputes. Whether you are navigating an international divorce, resolving child custody across jurisdictions, or addressing relocation or Hague Convention matters, international family mediation offers a private, effective and cross-border alternative to drawn-out litigation.
At Vermeulen Attorneys, we specialise in international family law mediation, helping South Africans and expatriates reach enforceable outcomes, regardless of where they or their children reside.
We offer in-person mediation in Roodepoort and Ballito, and full-service online mediation for international clients.
When Is International Mediation Needed?
You may benefit from international mediation if:
- You and your spouse live in different countries, and seek to mediate a cross-border divorce
- You are separated and need to negotiate care or contact (custody and access) across international borders
- One parent wishes to relocate to another country with a child
- You are dealing with a Hague Convention matter (wrongful removal or retention of a child)
- You need mirror orders or enforceable parenting agreements in multiple jurisdictions
What Can Be Mediated Internationally?
We assist clients with:
- International divorce settlements
- Child relocation agreements
- Cross-border parenting plans
- Spousal and child maintenance negotiations
- Mediation in international child abduction cases (Hague Convention)
- Mirror orders for enforcement abroad
- Virtual parenting arrangements
We also offer online family mediation services designed to bridge distance, time zones, and legal complexity.
Why Choose Vermeulen Attorneys for International Mediation?
- Global Expertise: Our team includes a fellow of the International Academy of Family Lawyers, and a dual-qualified attorney with deep knowledge of cross-jurisdictional family law.
- Legal Soundness: We draft agreements compliant with South African law, and coordinate with professionals in foreign jurisdictions for enforceability abroad.
- Remote Capability: We routinely conduct online international mediation, ensuring accessibility no matter where you are located.
- Multidisciplinary Network: We work with foreign counsel, psychologists, child experts, and mediators in other jurisdictions where required.
The International Mediation Process
While each matter is different, mediation is a flexible and adaptive process guided by the needs of the parties. In most cases, the process will follow these general steps:
- Agreement to Mediate
The parties sign an agreement appointing an attorney-mediator from Vermeulen Attorneys as the mediator. - Preparation
Parties submit intake forms and supporting documents. - Individual Pre-Mediation Sessions
Private online sessions are scheduled to identify goals, concerns, and cross-border logistics. - Joint Online Mediation Session(s)
We facilitate a structured online session across time zones and jurisdictions to guide parties to resolution. - Drafting the Agreement
We prepare a cross-border settlement agreement, parenting plan, or memorandum of understanding, and where necessary, assist with mirror orders or coordination with legal professionals in other countries.
Locations and Global Reach
- International Family Mediation Roodepoort – For locally-based expats or international family disputes
- International Family Mediation Ballito – Serving cross-border families on the KZN North Coast
- Online International Family Mediation – Available to clients across Africa, Europe, Asia, Australia, and the Americas
Book a Consultation for International Family Mediation
Our team is ready to help you navigate the legal, emotional, and logistical complexities of international family law disputes. Let us help you resolve matters across borders — with professionalism, neutrality, and legal precision.
Contact Vermeulen Attorneys today to schedule your international mediation consultation.












